You will get judged by your ideology and mindset but not by your fear and insecurities. You would be a person if you judge someone however you will be a human if you judge them by their deeds and thoughts.
You know at some stage of your life you will get insecure by someone’s intelligence, glamour, their success in various aspect of life. To get rid of these insecurities, you must tell the following person that you admire them, that you love their work, lifestyle and so on. You know this way a conversation will start to grow and no matter if it is short or lengthy, it will be positive enough because a successful person knows how it feels when you start to grow from scratch. The energy around you will become positive and energetic that will allow you to grow as a good being. (Also, if you think that the vibe doesn’t match or you don’t like someone you are at a wrong place unfollow them and make space for betterment)
Your determination of becoming a better person day by day will take you places and remember the judging process ain’t going to leave you but what will happen now is that your mindset will not allow you to get affect if someone judge you.
Last but not the least, don’t see other’s success as your failure. Everyone has their share of ups and downs. Instead of envying start celebrating it with zest.
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